Friday, March 27, 2009

David Weems

I am so sorry to have to report that after a long and hard fought battle, David passed away this afternoon. While the speed of deteriation was suprising to us, he went quickly and peacefully.

I will post information here on services.

He will be greatly missed by all that knew him... and me.

David's brother-in-law.
Gareth

14 comments:

  1. An incredible person and an Awesome Dad! I've been fortunate to get to know David over the past 12 years....it's been a blast! I'll miss you and all of the laughs we shared.

    John Genung, Jr.

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  2. My heart breaks for you guys. I am so sad that you have to join me on this horrible journey. I wish that I had been able to know David but feel as I almost due as our men were so alike! I am sure they are meeting each other now. I am here for you and probably one of the few people that can truly understand. Hang in there, the next week is going to be rough

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  3. Having known David from his and Nicola's High School days,he can very rightly be put in the category of a really delightful, caring, knowledgeable and fun-loving man. He deserved more and now we can but offer the most positive thoughts to Nicola, the children and the loving family he leaves. Three cheers for a lovely guy!

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  4. Dearest Nicola,
    We remember when David first started hanging around your house in Bear Creek. You could never have found anyone to love you more from that day forward. He was a super husband to you and a wonderful dad. May all of you have beautiful memories of a devoted family man. Our love to all of you.
    Pat & Buddy

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  5. My sweet Nicola,

    Living so far away has been so hard to physically be there for you. I can still remember David pulling up to the 7-Eleven and "saying" he was getting gas when in reality he was checking you out. When I talked with David after his diagnosis I had to eventually pull over and park because we talked for over an hour. I often told Dave (husband) that if anyone was to find or invent a cure for this cancer it would be your David. David, your effort will NOT be in vain. I LOVE YOU Nicola and will be there next week.

    Juliann and family

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  6. Jesse, Emma and Ethan,

    You are now blessed with a powerful and beautiful guardian angel. His love and influence on your lives will be with you forever.

    WE LOVE YOU.

    Dawson, Jadyn, Dave, and Juliann Gaudette

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  7. If Tomorrow Starts Without Me

    If tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see.

    If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me

    I wish so much you wouldn't cry the way you did today. While thinking of the many things we didn't get to say.

    I know how much you love me, As much as I love you, and each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too;

    But when tomorrow starts without me, Please try to understand, that an angel came and called my name, And took me by the hand

    And said my place was ready, in heaven far above, And that I'd have to leave behind all those I dearly love.

    But as I turned to walk away, A tear fell from my eye, For all my life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die.

    I had so much to live for, So much left yet to do, it seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you.

    I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad, I thought of all that we had shared, and all the fun we had.

    If I could relive yesterday, just even for a while, I'd say good-bye and kiss you and maybe see you smile.

    But then I fully realized, that this could never be, for emptiness and memories, would take the place of me.

    And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow.

    But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home. When God looked down and smiled at me, From His great golden throne,

    He said, "This is eternity, and all I've promised you." Today your life on earth is past, but here life starts anew.

    I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last, and since each day is the same way, there's no longing for the past.

    You have been so faithful, so trusting and so true. Though there were times you did some things, you knew you shouldn't do.

    But you have been forgiven, and now at last you're free. So won't you come and take my hand, and share my life with me

    So when tomorrow starts without me, don't think we're far apart, for every time you think of me, I'm right here, in your heart.

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  8. Nicola - I'm am so very sorry to hear about David. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. You have beautiful family and I pray for peace and comfort.

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  9. Nicola,
    We wanted you to know how much you and your kids have been in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry. Our hearts hurt so badly for you.
    We love you,
    Jennifer,Danny,Drake,and Tanner Isola

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  10. Nicola - I am so sorry. You both tried so hard to beat this and I share your disappointment and heartbreak. Please let me know how I can help.

    I can't believe you returned the sleeping bag today - as if you didn't have enough to do!

    You and the kids are constantly in our thoughts and prayers - you will get through this!

    Much love -

    Bonnie

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  11. Life is so unfair! I don't understand why things like this happen. David was much loved by many and will be greatly missed. I am praying for you daily. I will do my best to watch over Ethan at school. Jessica now has a new family with the Golden Girls. Please encourage her to call on them whenever she needs some support. Try to take things one day at a time and give yourself time to grieve.

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  12. Life is so unfair! I don't understand why things like this happen. David was loved by so many people. I am praying for you daily. I will try my best to look out for Ethan at school. Jessica has a new family with the Golden Girls. Encourage her to call on them when she needs some support. Try to take things one day at a time and give yourself permission and time to grieve.

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  13. Nicola,
    I still remember when we first met David and then attended your wedding! And David taking Andy and I home from the hospital Thanksgiving day -- It is hard to believe he is gone after knowing him for 18+ years. Peace to you and your family. God Bless.
    Nonda and Pete

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  14. Dear Nicola:

    I wish I could find the right words to share with you now. You and your beautiful have been through so much these past months. Surely these have been the hardest times in your lives and I am so sorry for all the pain you have endured.

    David's positive attitude and faith is a true inspiration to others, and he has touched so many lives by sharing his experiences and being such a "real" person. What a remarkable legacy David has given us all, and I know we are all grateful.

    I wish I could be there in person to support you and your family, but I am praying for you all everyday and holding you close in my heart.

    Love,
    Susan Shandalow-Keyser

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